But part of being a responsible adult in the dating pool is being open and honest to establish a foundation of truth and communication in a functional relationship and also, don’t even swim around in the pool until you’re in a healthy headspace to do those things! Look, almost all of us bring history and romantic baggage to the table when we embark on something new. Check, check and check! And with that, it’s time for you to check out of this dead-end relationship. They aren’t fully honest about their emotional availability. I really like him and I’m hoping if I give this relationship 110%, he’ll come to see what a great thing we have, and by the time she returns, he’ll fully commit to me. He said yes, he thinks he does, and he doesn’t know what that means for us. I asked if he still had feelings for her. I asked if he wanted to stop seeing each other. I was pretty surprised and definitely caught off guard. The other night, I asked if he thought we were on the same page, and he shared that his ex is coming back to Anchorage in fact, her move away was never permanent, she was out of state for work for the summer, and he always knew she was returning. Well once again, I was feeling lately like he was pulling away a little.
I buy gifts, make romantic gestures and do all the things to show without a doubt I’m into someone.
I'M THE GUY FULL
Full disclosure, I have a history of being more into guys than they are to me. When we first got together, he shared he’d recently had a breakup when his girlfriend moved out of state. I’ve been seeing the same guy for a few months.